When Arizona couples get married, they imagine it’s going to be for life. Most couples imagine they’ll be entering a “happily-ever-after” scenario once they take their vows. Unfortunately, roughly 50 percent of marriages in the U.S. end in divorce, and there are a variety of reasons why..
There’s a breakdown in communication
If you and your partner are not able to discuss important, key aspects of your relationship, there’s a good chance your marriage might not last. When couples don’t know how to communicate with each other, misunderstandings and resentment enter their space.
One or both parties are unfaithful
Being faithful to your partner is one of the most important parts of a relationship. When one partner breaks this promise, it destroys trust and can make it impossible for the couple to work through their issues.
Financial problems pull you apart
Finances can be a huge source of stress in relationships, and many couples struggle with these issues at some point. If your financial problems are not temporary, there’s a chance that they can affect your relationship in a negative way.
Children from a previous relationship cause conflict
If you have children from a previous relationship, they can become a point of contention in your current marriage. Issues can arise not only with the children but with the other parents. Children from previous relationships sometimes believe that their parents’ new marriages mean that they’ve been left behind. This can create negative feelings and tension that can last years and cause irreparable damage.
You simply grow apart
Married people sometimes grow apart as the years go by. Sometimes it’s because of conflict, and sometimes it’s because they’ve simply grown older and moved in different directions. They’re unable to rekindle the connection that they felt for each other at the beginning of their marriage, and they decide to divorce.
Marriage can be wonderful, but it also takes a lot of work to maintain. You may go into your marriage with the best of intentions, but sometimes things just fall apart. If you’re unable to fix your issues, splitting up may be your only option.